I get that not everyone is like me, but I know I'm not alone - some of you are feelers like myself. That is why last week when I talked about saying goodbye, its a big deal to me. Moving a lot hasn't helped me, I just feel tied to a lot of people in a lot of places.
So why am I telling you all this?
Because all those people in all those places mean something to me. I was posting a photo of a friend early today, as we had our last get together before she and her family moved. I was all of a sudden taken down years of memories with them person. Then I was overcome by overwhelming emotion. I felt this gratitude for what she had added to my journey. She had been a sounding board, a confidant - a friend!
Tonight on the other side of the country, people gather to say "thank-you" to a pastor and his wife after they retire following 38 years of ministry at their local church - a church, I grew up in. This pastor was also a part of my journey. I can remember sitting in his office in 5th (ish) grade as he counseled me through some very difficult times.
When I look at all the people over the years who have deposited amazingness into my life its wonderfully mind-boggling! Every little drop of love has filled my heart with joy!
Yes, there have been people who have hurt me, and brought pain into my life. Yes, I have had to work hard, pray hard and lean way into God to get past it all, but despite all that, the kindness, sacrifice and love I've been shown far surpasses the pain!
What about you? Can you think of all the people who have encouraged you, supported you and just plain been there for you over the years? Maybe its time to tell people what they mean to you. I think its high time I do! In the state of the world where suicide is rising at alarming rates, as seen this past week with Kate Spade and Anthony Bourdain leaving this world as a result of suicide, I am reminded to share the love. I am reminded to stay in community and be proactive in my relationships. I don't want to let the opportunity to let people know their impact, pass by unrequited.
God made me with a purpose, but he used a lot of people to shape me into the woman I am today. You never know how someone's otherwise everyday actions can have lasting impressions in your soul, until that one comment stays with you forever.
I have had a few people message me or text me letting me know something I wrote on here encouraged them, and that actually means something to me, because I can begin to question whether or not I should keep writing each week, so thank you!!!
Let's start talking about what matters and let people know how much you appreciate their part in your life. Don't be surprised if you hear from me, though it may take some time because I have a lot of people to thank!!!
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