This isn’t my first post about who I want my kids to be when they reach adulthood. Their faith, character and integrity are definitely integral parts of what I am aiming at in my parenting strategies. I definitely get a lot wrong because parenting is such a challenge and I am learning as I go, but seeing the end in mind in the middle of the moment is definitely key at making the parenting years count.
One of the best tools my mom gave me as a young girl was the gift of prayer. Prayer helps me lean into God when I don’t have enough on my own. Prayer gets a bad wrap these days because so many say the word without actually doing the job of praying, but true prayer is powerful and life changing!
One of the best tools my mom gave me as a young girl was the gift of prayer. Prayer helps me lean into God when I don’t have enough on my own. Prayer gets a bad wrap these days because so many say the word without actually doing the job of praying, but true prayer is powerful and life changing!
If you are like me, you want your kids to be people of prayer.
I have come up with seven ways you can help kids become people of prayer. My list was long so you will get it half today and half(ish) next week.
Here are the first three:
1. Prayer Walks - Walks aren’t just for exercise, engaging your mind in knowing your surroundings and engaging your spirit to connect with God in the places you walk is making the most of that experience. Last week I took my youth group on a prayer walk of our downtown. Each stop represented areas we wanted to pray for in our city. The teens responded really well. I have come up with seven ways you can help kids become people of prayer. My list was long so you will get it half today and half(ish) next week.
Here are the first three:
We also used "prayer knots" which gave them something to do on the walk. As God brought things to mind, I asked the teens to pray and make a knot for that prayer. We discussed what their knots were afterwards.
Prayer walks can be connecting locations with topics of prayer or praying for each of your neighbors as you walk past their house. Teaching your kids to be intentional in this discipline is an amazing skill.
2. Environmental Prayers - I can recall two years ago, my son and I were in the car headed to preschool. He called out to me that we needed to pray. I asked why and he told me he saw a flyer for a missing cat and that cat and family needed us to pray.
It completely blessed me to hear him note that and bring it to my attention. I had never told him to pray for missing animals. I had taught him to stop and pray whenever we heard or saw an emergency vehicle.
Being aware of your surroundings is a good skill for safety but it is also a spiritual tool too. Now when my kids see a homeless person we can offer them a grace bag of nonperishable food but also take a moment to pray. When we hear a siren or pull over to let one pass, we pray. Thanks to Caleb, when we see lost pets, we pray. There are so many other reminders of prayer all around us, we just have to pay attention. What other ideas can you add to my list?
3.Insomnia Intercession - I don’t struggle with insomnia, but when I do wake in the middle of the night, its my signal to pray. You never know what people are going through around the world, or if someone is calling out to God and you are the one he woke to intercede (purposed intentional prayer) for them, you are blessed! We are after all, the body of Christ - all equals and all interconnected. Sure you can count sheep, or even count blessings like Bing Crosby and Rosemary Clooney in "White Christmas," but I prefer to pray. Teaching my kids to do the same is a legacy I want to leave for the future.
Do me a favor - try these out this week. Comment below on how they worked and come back next week for the rest of the list.
Training our kids to be spiritual powerhouses is the best gift we can give them. Prayer works so well because its not just asking for the request asked in Sunday School, but it engages in spiritual things that we may have no knowledge about. That right there is amazing!!!
Do me a favor - try these out this week. Comment below on how they worked and come back next week for the rest of the list.
Training our kids to be spiritual powerhouses is the best gift we can give them. Prayer works so well because its not just asking for the request asked in Sunday School, but it engages in spiritual things that we may have no knowledge about. That right there is amazing!!!
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